How do we all fit into this
world? Do we ever really feel 100
percent part of a group, be it a family, a race, a culture, a work crew, a
society? Do we really want to fit in with ‘Our’ group? Maybe we’d rather back away, not wanting to
deal with a groups uniqueness’s and issues, choosing instead to quietly retreat
or make some noise while marching to the beat of our own drum. I don’t think any one of us could definitively
say yes or no to exclusively fitting in with any one group. Life is a series of
communities that seem to continuously overlap and intertwine.
So why are communities so
vital to human existence? Without really realizing it, humans continuously
interact with other humans, in class we discussed how as humans we develop our
sense of self from relating and talking to others, people are vulnerable and
dependent on each other. In the book “Radical Pedagogy Identity, Generativity, and
Social Transformation” in explores how individuals relate to each other in
society and how they relate to each other in learning situations “The most
fundamental identity need is the need for recognition, the need to have one’s
being appreciated and validated, or at least taken into account by others…”
chapter 1, pg.7. I found this to be a very powerful statement; perhaps many of
us underestimate how dependent we are on each other, how we actually crave to
be validated, certainly some more than others. We like to think we are
independent thinkers and ‘don’t care” what people think, and I feel in some
respects this may be somewhat true. But if we examine the research, it’s clear
that as humans we are connected to each other socially and in learning, as a
result this forms who we are and how we relate to each other.
In
class we examined the movie “Crash”,2004,
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0375679/
In this movie, the lives of several vastly
different groups of people overlap for a brief time and spotlight their vulnerabilities
and preconceived notions of various races and ethnic groups. The characters in
the movie, like many of us in real life, don’t want to admit they have any
prejudices, yet they are present and visceral with most of the characters. Did
they even know they felt that way? People tend to not want to acknowledge any
animosity toward any marginalized group, even when it may exist. Is this the
correct thing to do? It’s a tough question, as humans we have the need to be
desired and would never want to put ourselves in a position of being excluded
by a group, even when its not our own group. However to acknowledge a prejudice
may be the first step in breaking down this feeling, however difficult it is
for someone to recognize this in themselves. In the movie, the cop who sexually
assaulted a woman who was black never stated to anyone that he was prejudice
against this race, but clearly he was, however later in the movie he rescued
this same black lady from a burning car. Did he finally realize his bigotry and
then have a revelation how despicable it was and put aside his feelings and
treat this woman as a human being regardless of race? I guess as an optimist I
like to think so, I like to think we all have the potential to overcome the
stereotypes portrayed in this movie, but that might be a tall order.
Along
with the many benefits of belonging to a community of practice, such as, learning,
relationships, feeling like we belong, which are all very gratifying, there can
be consequences to all the communities of practice that exist in anyone’s life,
such as forming preconceived ideas of other communities of practice, other
social groups that we feel we know everything about, when actually we likely
know little or nothing about their lives. Human arrogance and entitlement can
be very powerful, however the desire to be desired for any human by any human
can be a pure emotion, hopefully, with the ability to overcome the negative.
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| Jimi Hendrix |
References:
Bracher,
M. (2006). Radical Pedagogy: Identity, Generativity, and Social
Transformation. New York, NY: Palgrave MacMillian
Movie-
Crash, 2004, http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0375679




